It’s hard to believe it’s already been three months since we left Rotterdam. In some ways, it feels like a long time, yet, in the context of an open-ended journey, it’s only the beginning.

So far, we’ve sailed approximately 1,700 nautical miles (about 3,200 km) and are now exploring the Algarve. It’s a journey that takes just a few hours by plane or two days by car. But for us, the pace has been perfect. We’ve taken it slow, making mostly day trips and savoring the moments along the way.

A shift in mindset

Three months in, our mindset has transformed. There’s more space in our minds, more room to adapt, and greater flexibility in how we approach life. This shift allows us to truly be in the moment, embracing new experiences as they come.

Time: a precious gift

Time is a curious thing. In our old lives, there was never enough of it, always rushing, always under pressure. Looking back, it’s hard to imagine living differently. But now, with the gift of time, I wonder how we could ever return to that constant race.

Life on board is busy, there’s always something to plan, fix, or organize. But the difference is that we control our schedule. We decide what to do and when to do it, and that freedom is a luxury I deeply appreciate.

This slower pace has brought unexpected joys. For example, I’ve discovered I actually enjoy cooking. It’s no longer a chore squeezed into a chaotic schedule but a meaningful act of care for my family. The same task, done with time and intention, feels entirely different.

Parenting on board

Having Philou with us has been a gift in itself. She helps us stay present and enjoy the little moments. Whether we’re playing games, going on “expeditions,” or answering her endless questions, her curiosity and enthusiasm bring so much joy to our days.

Watching her grow and develop at this pace is a privilege. Before, our time together was often rushed or interrupted by work. Now, we can focus on her fully and she thrives in this environment.

Sailing with a child has its challenges, of course. Philou sometimes feels seasick, but she recovers quickly and embraces the adventure with a smile. Her resilience is a lesson for us: even when things go wrong, joy is always just around the corner.

Being with her 24/7 has its ups and downs, but seeing her happiness confirms that this is the right path for us. The tough moments are fleeting, and the rewards are immeasurable.

Finding our flow

After three months, we’ve found a rhythm on board. No two days are exactly alike, but there’s a comforting consistency to our life now.

We live in the same home every day, even as our surroundings change. It’s a “slow life” filled with simple pleasures and new discoveries.

Our days follow a loose pattern: checking weather forecasts, planning routes, provisioning, tackling boat jobs, working a few hours, and exploring the places we visit. It’s a balance of routine and spontaneity, with plenty of time for flexibility.

We’ve also connected with many fellow sailors along the way, sharing stories, advice, and laughs. These relationships are an unexpected highlight of this journey.

Living simply

Life on board has become simpler, yet it’s focused on the essentials: safety, cleanliness, food, health, and planning.

We’ve also found clarity in dividing responsibilities. Edwin handles most of the technical tasks, while I manage the household, a role I once dreaded but now find surprisingly fulfilling.

I’ve even discovered a passion for navigation, from route planning to making decisions during the sail. It’s a skill I inherited from my dad, and it brings me a sense of pride and purpose.

Our division of roles has made life smoother. There’s no frustration about who’s supposed to do what, it’s clear and effective. And we both remain multifunctional, ready to handle any job if needed.

The joy of sunlight

One of the most noticeable changes is living in the sun. Though we’ve faced our share of bad weather, the warmth and light of a new climate have transformed our days.

We relish open windows, light clothing, and the daily beauty of sunrises and sunsets. The sun’s warmth on our skin feels healing, both physically and mentally.

A life of focus

Life on board isn’t for everyone. Space is limited, family is far away, and safety is always on our minds. We’re at the mercy of wind and weather, and every aspect of life requires planning and adaptability.

But we choose not to focus on the challenges, they’re simply part of the life we’ve embraced. If it ever becomes too much, we’ll adjust our course.

For now, life is sunny, and we hope to keep it that way for a long time.

Written by Mirjam